This one goes out to the ladies out there. I have but one question, and its not directed at all women out there just the ones who act a certain way. I have noticed in recent years women having an attitude that its ok to treat their significant others like complete garbage. Doing things like talking down to them, yelling at them, acting as though they can control their partner’s time and money, all while not wanting to support their partner with house work, finances, or even simple affection. All of this either just as the partner gets home from work or on a day off where the partner has done nothing more then get ready for the day or ask a simple question.

Now…before we start a gender war…I do agree that men can and are absolutely stupid from time to time. We are dense, and typically if we aren’t thinking about sports, food or boobs…we are litterally thinking about nothing. I can see why this would get irritating.

So what ever happened to the loving, caring, affectionate girl who can tell her partner has had a tough day and out of the kindness of her heart gives him some TLC without being snide, bitchy or any other adjective you can put here. I for one don’t know many (maybe 3) women who are kind like this. I have seen a few ladies like this in public, at the store, ect and they usually seem to be with some total douche who epitimizes the male side of ass-hatery. These guys wear the poped colars, talk down to their women and treat them like garbage.

I’m getting on a rant here, and a little off topic so its time to get back on track. My point is this: cool, nice, awesome ladies and gents out there STOP hooking up with ass-hates and bitches. Seriously. Ladies, if you want a good guy don’t be afraid to approach him. The nice ones are sometimes kinda shy, or maybe we are just that sick of rejection that we don’t want to subject ourselves to it anymore.

Guys, if you spot a lady who has some complete douche as her partner, find a way to let her know there is better available to her. I’m not saying go jump into a fight (although, knocking some douche’s teeth down his throat would be AWESOME…I don’t condone violence). Instead find a subtle way, chances are the douche will be so absorbed in himself and how great he thinks he is to notice.

Its time we stop being with people that make us miserable. Nice people deserve better, so grow the hell up and get with the people that treat you as you deserve to be treated.

So I was undecided what to use this space for, as I already have a differnt blog. A good friend coerced convinced me to start this one and I decided after some thought to use it for more personal things that I shouldn’t put in a professional blog. My goal here is to talk about nuances I notice with all sorts of things in life, tech things, social things, people things. I hope that you guys and gals will find it useful, funny, or some what amusing.